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"Being born a woman is an awful tragedy. Yes, my consuming desire to mingle with road crews, sailors..."

Sun, 19 May 2013 21:13:41 -0400

““Being born a woman is an awful tragedy. Yes, my consuming desire to mingle with road crews, sailors and soldiers, bar room regulars—to be a part of a scene, anonymous, listening, recording —all is spoiled by the fact that I am a girl, a female always in danger of assault and battery. My consuming interest in men and their lives is often misconstrued as a desire to seduce them, or as an invitation to intimacy. Yet, God, I want to talk to everybody I can as deeply as I can. I want to be able to sleep in an open field, to travel west, to walk freely at night.””

- Sylvia Plath (via oh-girl-among-the-roses)

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Sun, 19 May 2013 14:59:36 -0400

oncealoyallover: By Jem

Sat, 18 May 2013 12:18:53 -0400

oncealoyallover:

By Jem

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Sat, 18 May 2013 12:14:49 -0400

kaidenii: Flowering Garden - Vincent van Gogh 1888

Sat, 18 May 2013 12:14:40 -0400

kaidenii:

Flowering Garden - Vincent van Gogh

1888

paradoxicalsentiments: fatalisticfarmer: The road I went to...

Sat, 18 May 2013 11:35:38 -0400

paradoxicalsentiments:

fatalisticfarmer:

The road

I went to arizona once when I was young and I want to go again. this time I promise to appreciate it more

subcircular: adore this

Wed, 15 May 2013 22:39:21 -0400

subcircular:

adore this

owls-love-tea: horinarumi ミミクリ / Mimicry

Wed, 15 May 2013 22:24:32 -0400

owls-love-tea:

horinarumi ミミクリ / Mimicry

sorry for my absence tumblr I have been busy with the last few weeks of high school

Wed, 15 May 2013 21:41:04 -0400

sorry for my absence tumblr I have been busy with the last few weeks of high school

tearingdowndoors: Untitled | Coyhand

Wed, 15 May 2013 21:40:28 -0400

tearingdowndoors:

Untitled | Coyhand

mpdrolet: Margarete Elmenhorst

Wed, 15 May 2013 21:30:45 -0400

mpdrolet:

Margarete Elmenhorst

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Mon, 13 May 2013 12:49:13 -0400

my life is a good old war song

Sun, 12 May 2013 23:05:29 -0400

my life is a good old war song

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Fri, 10 May 2013 23:21:02 -0400

coloredmondays: Flowers from the garden

Fri, 10 May 2013 23:17:00 -0400

coloredmondays:

Flowers from the garden

coelacanthteeth: How ‘Slut Shaming’ Has Been Written Into School Dress Codes Across The...

Fri, 10 May 2013 21:04:28 -0400

coelacanthteeth:

How ‘Slut Shaming’ Has Been Written Into School Dress Codes Across The Country

Last month, a New Jersey middle school banned girls from wearing strapless dresses to prom. Administrators claimed that the dresses were “distracting” — though they refused to specify exactly how or why. Parents reacted strongly to the rule; some supported the dress code while others deemed it “slut-shaming.” On Friday, the school compromised by allowing girls to wear single-strap or see-through-strap dresses.

This is no isolated incident in the United States. Across the country, young girls are being told what not to wear because it might be a “distraction” for boys, or because adults decide it makes them look “inappropriate.” At its core, every incident has a common thread: Putting the onus on young women to prevent from being ogled or objectified, instead of teaching those responsible to learn to respect a woman’s body. Here are five other recent examples:

1. A middle school in California banned tight pants. At the beginning of last month, a middle school in Northern California began telling girls to avoid wearing pants that are “too tight” because it “distracts the boys.” At a mandatory assembly for just the female students, the middle school girls were told that they’re no longer allowed to wear leggings or yoga pants. “We didn’t think it was fair how we have all these restrictions on our clothing while boys didn’t have to sit through [the assembly] at all,” one student told local press. Some parents also complained, leading the school’s assistant principal to record a voicemail explaining the new policy. “The guiding principle in all dress codes is that the manner in which students dress does not become a distraction in the learning environment,” the message said.

2. A high school principal in Minnesota emailed parents to ask them to cover up their daughters. A principal in Minnetonka, MN recently wrote an email telling parents to stop letting their daughters wear leggings or yoga pants to school. He says the tight-fitting pants are fine with longer shirts but, when worn with a shorter top, a girl’s “backside” can be “too closely defined.” The big risk of having a defined backside, he thinks, is that it can “be highly distracting for other students.”

3. Two girls in Ohio were turned away from their prom for being “improperly dressed.” Laneisha Williams and Nyasia Mitchell were barred from prom this spring for wearing dresses that administrators considered “too revealing.” The girls say that they didn’t believe they were violating a dress code that said dresses couldn’t be too short or show too much cleavage. But one administrator told local news that the high school girls were only allowed to wear dresses that had “no curvature of their breasts showing.”

4. A kindergarten student in Georgia was forced to change her “short” skirt because it was a “distraction to other students.” It’s hard to imagine that a kindergartener’s outfit could be “a distraction to other students,” but a mother in Georgia told locals news there that her daughter had been outfitted in someone else’s pants — without parental permission — after the principal deemed the skirt the young girl was wearing too short.” The girl had apparently wore the skirt, and accompanying leggings, just one week before without incident.

5. Forty high school girls were sent home from a winter dance in California after “degrading” clothing inspections “bordering on sexual harassment.” A school board member’s daughter was among the 40 girls turned away from Capistrano Valley High’s February dance for wearing dresses that either exposed their midriffs or were cut too low. Before the dance, girls were apparently required to flap their arms up and down and turn around for male administrators’ inspection. The school issues image guidelines for appropriate dress on its website — though the images were nearly all of women, and the only male image depicted proper attire. One girl alleges that the principal told her, “Not all dresses look good on certain body shapes.” A grandmother of one of the girls who was turned away from the dance also said that a teacher remarked about her granddaughter, “What mother would allow her daughter to wear a dress like that?” Apparently the school did receive some praise, though, from the parents of two male students.

When most Americans think about “rape culture,” they may think about the Steubenville boys’ defense arguing that an unconscious girl consented to her sexual assault because she “didn’t say no,” the school administrators who choose to protect their star athletes over those boys’ rape victims, or the bullying that led multiple victims of sexual assault to take their own lives. While those incidences of victim-blaming are certainly symptoms of a deeply-rooted rape culture in this country, they’re not the only examples of this dynamic at play. Rape culture is also evident in the attitudes that lead school administrators to treat young girls’ bodies as inherently “distracting” to the boys who simply can’t control themselves. That approach to gender roles simply encourages our youth to assume that sexual crimes must have something to do with women’s “suggestive” clothes or behavior, rather than teaching them that every individual is responsible for respecting others’ bodily autonomy.

paradoxicalsentiments: I can’t wait for summer and for someone and something to inspire me

Thu, 09 May 2013 23:12:42 -0400

paradoxicalsentiments:

I

can’t

wait

for

summer

and

for

someone

and

something

to

inspire

me

audreyhepburncomplex: history-of-art: Glitchy Nighthawks. GIF by...

Thu, 09 May 2013 23:03:47 -0400

audreyhepburncomplex:

history-of-art:

Glitchy Nighthawks. GIF by Ibon Mainar.

hey cool I just wrote a paper about edward hopper

widewhitestairs: Danielle Hughson

Thu, 09 May 2013 18:21:05 -0400

widewhitestairs:

Danielle Hughson

<3_<3

Thu, 09 May 2013 18:19:33 -0400

<3_<3